Friday, October 10, 2008

Way to go, John McCain

Tonight the news is all abuzz about John McCain having to stand up for Barack Obama in the middle of his own campaign rally. Within 20 minutes, McCain had to shush a young husband who said he was afraid to see Obama as President, and he had to clarify for a confused elderly woman that Obama isn't an Arab, but a trustworthy, decent man (never mind what that felt like for the millions of decent Arab men all around the country).

I don’t care for the self-serving, hate-mongering simpletons of either party, and my guess is neither does John McCain. But he’s had to get into bed with many of the right-wing ones to mobilize many of the party's most reliable voters--though frequently the least well-rounded. In league with them, a man that kept his countrymen’s spirits high and his own integrity clean in a prison-camp hole in VietNam has started to dirty his character by attacking Obama (no flawless choirboy himself) in some pretty outrageous ways.

But today, for a singular moment, like a philandering husband overpowered with a suddenly-active moral compass, John McCain got off that soggy mattress, stood up tall, and said essentially, “No, I’d rather lose with integrity — than win on the backs of an ignorant mob.”

Not every politician is able to do that, even when the odds are looking long, as they are now for McCain. Democrats by the smoky-roomful and Republicans by the smokey clubhouse-full have often sold their honor for our votes. I saw the tension in McCain's face as he spoke, for his mind knew the consequences of acting with integrity in a room that wanted a boogeyman.

I don’t know who’s going to win this election. And I don’t know whether this sudden clarity of purpose and commitment to truthfulness will stay with McCain. But my heart was buoyed by seeing McCain’s integrity re-surface under pressure-- or under the weight of self-respect and appropriate shame. No one who’s served their country as painfully and faithfully as he has deserves to let our lowest mob impulses drag him down to the lowest common denominator. That, my friends, might sometimes win elections. But it's always the stuff of tragedy, not triumph.

And what do you benefit if you gain the whole world but lose your own soul? Matthew 16:26

Sunday, October 5, 2008

Monopoly of Love

My boys and I like playing Monopoly together. Well, actually, each of them likes playing with me, but not so much as a threesome. I think they've intuited that when one of them plays me, he usually wins; when the 3 of us play, it's a toss-up between them who wins. And incredibly, I NEVER win! Obviously, when I play games with my 8 or 11-year olds, I'm not in it to win, but rather to 1) just enjoy their company or, 2) motivate them to keep playing with me!

For kids who seem to only sit still in front of video screens, playing a boardgame is one of the rare chances I get to watch them THINKING in relative slow-motion. I love seeing their glee when they move their top hat or tortoise around Go and collect $200, and I dutifully show my horror when I land on their 3-house-Boardwalk (why o why did I trade him Park Place for B&O Railroad???)

Playing Monopoly with my kids is one of the precious times I get to say thank you to God for blessing me with fatherhood. Yes, I do occasionally look forward to the day I can play cut-throat Monopoly again (or Scrabble, Risk, etc). But not very often. I think when that day comes, I'll regret that my days of sure-fire bankruptcies and bone-headed trades are over -- and so, too, are their childhoods.

So, what do you think? With God on our side like this, how can we lose?...Do you think anyone is going to be able to drive a wedge between us and Christ's love for us? There is no way! Rom 8:32-38 Message